"She Bought Her Dress at Walmart!"

Yes, that was a major topic of conversation last evening at the class reunion. My wife's friend, Nancy, announced with great pride, that her dress; which by the way looked very good on her; was a Walmart purchase -- cost? $15.00. Now, why is that such a bid deal? We all know what the important women in our lives go have to go through when planning to see old friends after a 30+ years hiatus from high school. Deciding what to wear is a big deal! How many different outfits are tried on? How much money is really spent on looking good? How long did it take for you to find that special dress? Who would have known that Walmart would have been the hit of the evening! Great dress for a great price!

Shopping! My Style!

Today, my wife will be attending her 70's class reunion and I will be attending with her. I know how important it is to her for me to look "presentable!" Now, shopping is not my thing but we checked my closet and I decided I needed a new shirt. Normally, she goes with me but today she is busy getting ready for the big event. So, I decided to visit my favorite shopping place (Kohls) to pick out a shirt. My wife's opinion is important so rather than deciding on one shirt I grabbed seven off the racks to bring home. We went through them one by one and settled on a shirt that we both liked. The best part of my shopping spree is that it took only 20 minutes. The thing I like best about Kohls is that no one is "bugging" you with "may I help you?" A guy can browse at leisure as they have many choices! Now, I will return those shirts I'm not keeping! That is something my wife taught me as well.

Oh yea! One other thing about Kohls--I was convinced one of the shirts I selected was 40% off but it rang up the regular price. The sales clerk just took me for my word and gave me the discount. I went back to the rack and realized it was not 40% off! This is one of the shirts I am returning so I will correct my mistake with customer service!

Happy Shopping -- Guys!

Sales!

Why would anyone want to pay full price for any item? There is always some kind of a sale going on! If not immediately, then eventually!

My wife is a great shopper when it comes to sales. And believe me, she loves to shop! She loves clothes and often comes home with the results of some great shopping due to sales. I love it when she reads me the original price tag and then goes further with the discounts and sales. Recently, a top from Ann Taylor originally sold for $48.00 and she got it for $20.00! Another top was originally $78.00, on sale for $69.00 and she got it for $35.00. Great looking tops and easy on the check book as well!

The only question we really need to ask is how much do we really want to spend? The biggest challenge is waiting for that newly-arrived fashion trend to go on sale. You know it eventually will!

What are your shopping stories on finding great sales?

3rd St. Santa Monica Shopping

One of my more favorite places to visit (as my wife tours the stores) is on 3rd Street in Santa Monica. For the initiated, you know what I mean when I talk about the variety of people walking through area along with the many different street performers earning their keep. I am an amateur photographer so I find many interesting subjects to focus upon. Two of my areas of interests include the performers as well as some of the less fortunate people down on their luck looking for help and support. Here are some of my favorites.

How to Keep Your Husband Happy - What Husbands Need

I found the following article very interesting (being a guy, that is). We are very simple creatures that can be sustained very easily with some simple but loving and thoughtful recognition. This article may help you in your relationships....

Are you searching for how to keep your husband happy? If you don't know what husbands need, it can be very complicated trying to figure out why your marriage is unhappy and how to get it back on track. Once you better understand men and their wants and needs, marriage gets a lot easier and more rewarding....read more.

A Note to the Guys

I know this is nothing new but just a reminder. If your wife or girlfriend likes to shop, surprise her someday by taking her out for a special trip. Knowing how much guys hate to shop and it is usually her idea to take a "mental health" shopping day, you will be loved for this little surprise.

Does Your Husband Like to Shop With You?

Ladies, what have you experienced with your husband or significant others when it comes to shopping? Does he go with you? Does he complain? Does he sit in the car waiting for you (patiently or impatiently)? Does he deserve to be recognized with a special pin that you can surprise him with?

Sherpa on Duty Pin in Production

As you may see on the left side of this page, there is a happy-faced cartoon logo sporting a backpack. This is the primary design of our Sherpa on Duty lapel pin that will soon be available for purchase. A figment of my imagination whereas one day I mentioned to my beloved wife that men are "sherpas" as they trail their wives and significant others during shopping sprees. Please revisit once the pin is available and consider rewarding your loved on with a special pin recognizing his or her support of your shopping endeavors.

A Must Read Article!

'Men Buy, Women Shop': The Sexes Have Different Priorities

When Walking Down the Aisles

When it comes to shopping, women are from Nordstrom's and men are from Sears.

Women are happy to meander through sprawling clothing and accessory collections or detour through the shoe department. They like to glide up glass escalators past a grand piano, or spray a perfume sample on themselves on their way to, maybe, making a purchase. For men, shopping is a mission. They are out to buy a targeted item and flee the store as quickly as possible, according to new Wharton research....read more...

Men Shopping!

My wife claims that I tricked her after we got married. I know we put our best foot forward during our courting phase...and to be with my wife at that time meant I would travel along side her during her shopping sprees! Now, after 17 years of marriage, she realizes shopping is not my most favorite activity. However, I do go shopping with her -- usually I will look for a comfortable chair in the store or the mall. I am a typical male, I guess. My two favorite places to shop are Kohl's and J. Crew. Kohl's is perfect for a guy! I like the fact that no one is waiting on you and that I have time to decide what to buy and leave quickly. J. Crew, however, is my favorite place for my clothes. J. Crew is also my wife's favorite place. So, I can be a good Sherpa on Duty when we visit our favorite store. By the way, this is not a picture of me!

Back to Reality!

We have only been home for a couple of days and we still are missing Kauai. This was my first trip to Hawaii. I really did not know what to expect but now I am a believer in a comfortable and peaceful lifestyle which is the signature of Kauai. Peaceful, calm, relaxing all surrounded by lush plants and color. I have some great recommendations for restaurants and shopping

Forget the Luau

What a shock we had this morning when we went to pick up our voucher for a luau we planned to attend. We forgot one thing when we spoke to the guy who arranges activities. We forgot to ask for the cost. The voucher indicated $99.00 per person! A shock indeed! We would never have booked it if we first had asked the price. More importantly, I felt the resort had a duty to inform us of the cost. I can see why they didn't. Even though we missed the 24 hour cancellation requirement, I insisted that we were not told of the cost before hand. We got a call back after about an hour with the good news that they accepted our cancellation! Moral of the story is obvious! ASK FIRST! More money for another Sherpa on Duty excursion for the good wife!

A New Experience!

Well, here we are in Hawaii which is a new experience for me thanks to my lovely wife Sally who convinced me we needed a well-deserved vacation. We are vacationing in Kauai on the south shore in Poipou. I woke up early this morning and watched the light change from morning grey with the sun soon to rise. As I walked out onto the balcony I could see the ocean in the distance. Sherpa on Duty will now be able to support some very new experiences! More to come.

Under Construction

Thank you for finding my Sherpa On Duty Blog. We are currently designing a terrific lapel pin that makes a great gift for that wonderful "sherpa" in your life. Stay tuned for more information. Thanks for visiting.